The result was, “nervous twitching, phantom scrolling and even singing songs from playlists they could not access. They felt lost.”
Sounds a little like withdrawal symptoms a drug addict gets from staying off drugs. And just like addiction to drugs, addiction to technology can be unhealthy, dangerous and negatively affect all aspects of life in many ways.
From years ago, parents and experts have expressed worries about young people being addicted to their computers, with some cooping themselves up in their rooms to ensure they get their daily dosage of computer use, in serious cases, skipping school or work. These days, with technology getting more intrusive, one doesn’t have to skip school or work or hole up in front of the screen to be deemed an addict. They could be out at the mall and still be tapping away at their own little virtual world, or be in class or at their work desk, concentrating on the little screen when nobody is supposedly looking.
Cell phone addiction can be even more serious than other gadget addictions. Firstly, as mentioned above, it can be touted around everywhere. Secondly, it has many more functions than any other handheld devices like the PSP – one can game on it, watch the latest Korean dramas, surf the internet, go on Facebook… if the person enjoys all of these, good luck prying that device out of his hands.
Not all addicts are Twitter-crazed or enjoy slinging stones at virtual pigs. In fact, some phone addicts are constantly checking emails from work, and usually not because their bosses want them to. The portability of a smart phone has allowed workaholics to bring their workaholic tendencies to even greater heights, which is not at all good for their stress level and social life.
With technology so handy, multi-functional and trendy these days, how can you tell the difference between a zealous user who’s just keeping up with times and an addicted user who has dedicated his life to his phone?
Phone addiction can be classified as an obsessive-compulsive disorder, because the user has a constant need to have his phone with him at all times and is constantly using it, even in the middle of activities like eating, watching television or when out and about.
Some major traits that can be observed in an addicted cell phone user:
- Huge / Significantly increased cell phone bills. Data roaming is expensive, but standard data plans provided by most telcos in
- Cannot keep eyes off the screen, whether it’s for checking for text messages and emails or responses to the latest tweets or Facebook statuses, or how quickly the harvest is growing.
- Isolates oneself from others while
being glued to the cell phone, even in the midst of social activities like
watching television or BBQ.
- Losing priority. Spends a lot of time fiddling with the phone when there are more important matters at hand.
- Losing priority. Spends a lot of time fiddling with the phone when there are more important matters at hand.
- Charging cell phone very often. As smart phones do use a lot of electricity, having to charge it once or twice a day is quite normal, but anything more than twice a day suggests excessive usage. If the user is resorting to bringing his charger around with him, this is also a sign of cell phone overuse.
- Anxiety level increases when unable to use cell phone. Visible signs include rising tempers, losing focus, constantly trying to keep fingers busy (i.e. finger nail biting, phantom scrolling)
Addicts often find it difficult to realise or admit their addiction. But some extreme emotions or lifestyles shouldn’t go unnoticed:
Do you feel sad or disappointment when there is no response from your phone e.g. emails, messages, tweets, facebook? Do you feel angry, tensed or bad tempered when you are unable to use your phone? Are you unable to sleep at night because you are constantly checking your phone. Do you find that you often lack time to finish the things you should do because you are always spending time on your phone?
If your answer is Yes to these, you will need to overcome that addiction. Being a savvy smart phone user makes you look smart, but letting your phone dictate your life simply makes you look stupid.
In my next article, I will share tips on reducing dependency on the phone.