It’s doubly hazy days ahead in Singapore as the Chinese burn offerings in public in light of the Hungry Ghost Festival, and forest fires blaze away in Indonesia.

Having been neighbours to countries that experience huge forest fires at least once a year, most of us are all too familiar with the effects of haze and the precautions we should take to protect ourselves from the haze. These topics have been discussed in this blog here and here.

Most people are aware of, and have experienced for themselves, the irritation that smoke causes to the eyes. But the effects of smoke and haze may not stop there. Smoke can cause swollen eyes that result from allergy or inflammation. My poor colleague has just received a 3-day MC from the doctor to stay at home because she woke up one fine morning with a mysteriously swollen right eye that wouldn’t open. The doctor attributed it to the smoky environment.

Tiny foreign particles in smoke may enter your eyes, and cause an infection if not removed in a timely manner. People with dry eyes may be more vulnerable to such infections as their eyes do not produce sufficient moisture to remove the particles. If your eyes are often dry, bring along a bottle of eye-drops with you which you can use whenever your eyes feel irritated. Do also wear shades or glasses when you’re outdoors as they will help to limit direct exposure to foreign particles in the air.

Environmental allergies may be more challenging to fight. Some of us have very sensitive eyes. They get itchy the moment we take out a stack of clothes from the cupboard to pack. Usually, our bodies are able to keep the allergens at bay, but when there are too many stressors or triggers in the environment, the body cannot cope, and this results in allergic conditions.

What you should do is to get plenty of rest and make sure you’re getting ample Vitamin C. These will help to boost your body’s immunity against infections and allergies.

You should also avoid being around second-hand smoke, or cut down on the cigarettes if you’re a smoker.

What to do if my eyes are swollen?

There is a difference between puffy eyes and swollen eyes. Puffy eyes are a common occurrence due to lack of rest, constant exposure to computer work and fluid retention. Most of the time, they aren’t even particularly noticeable unless you’re really fussy about your appearance.

Swollen eyes on the other hand are a different matter. You would find that your field of vision is restricted due to difficulty with opening your lids. Your eyelids may also exhibit unnatural redness. The whites of your eyes may not be red, but that doesn’t mean it’s not serious.
 

Do not resort to home remedies, but see a doctor immediately.You will typically be prescribed eye drops, oral medication and / or ointment with antibiotic purposes and to bring down the swelling. You’ll probably also be requested to take a break from school or work so that you can rest at home while the swelling clears up. Swollen eyes take up to one week to be completely healed. In that time, stay indoors as much as possible. If you must go out, wear sunglasses or an eye patch to protect your eyes. You should also avoid seafood, peanuts and other heaty food for about ten days or the swelling may be aggravated.


 
Ramadan, the fasting month for our Muslim friends has concluded recently. With holiday moods still in swing and delicious festive goodies being sold everywhere, it is hard to not have a desire to fill oneself up with as much delicacies as possible, especially considering how delicious Malay cuisine is. I've always had great admiration for my Muslim friends to fast. In a food paradise like Singapore, restricting one's diet is a practice that calls for sheer determination.

In Indonesia where the country is largely populated with Muslims, however, the festive spirit seems to have been dampened by visits to the doctor. There have been reports of spikes in clinic visits for binge eating and over-indulging in heavy foods.

Over-eating once in a while is hardly anything to shout out. It happens with the occasional gathering, party and holiday when you just have no excuse (or don't want to have an excuse) to eat only in moderation. But when you're binging after a lull period for your digestive system, it can be extremely harmful.

During a long period of dieting, or if you've always had a habit of eating light foods, your body will adjust to suit your needs. Metabolism slows down to conserve energy, and it will continue to do so for a period of time after that unless you change your lifestyle, to which your metabolism will be altered appropriately.

But the changes to your lifestyle must be applied gradually, or you would not be able to adjust adequately, thus prompting problems to occur. Take exercise for example. If you haven't been exercising regularly, but suddenly go on a 10km marathon, your body will not be able to take it. You may develop breathing difficulties, you may develop cramps, and you may just faint from exertion.

Similarly, if you exert your stomach, problems will occur. Consuming huge levels of food, especially unhealthy, savoury, fatty dishes, can cause sudden increases in blood sugar levels and cholesterol levels. These can lead to weight gain, indigestion, bowel problems and heart burn. For those with illnesses like high blood pressure and diabetes, over-eating multiplies the toll these illnesses already have on your body.

No doubt, one shouldn't be a spoilsport and reject delicacies when the occasion calls for it. But practise moderation, eat only as much as you can eat without feeling sick, exercise off the fats, and down the guilty pleasures with hot Chinese tea or green tea. which promote digestion and detoxification. Only then can you truly enjoy the festivities for a prolonged period of time.

Source: http://news.yahoo.com/ramadan-fast-indonesians-eat-vengeance-151638205.html


Sasaeng fans of K-pop stars lying on the road to stop their idols from moving forward.

Indulging in dreamy fantasies about your favourite celebrity, spending your limited pocket money on CDs and fan merchandise, having an unquenchable thirst for every single titbit of knowledge about your idol, buying presents for your idol, secretly following him/her on the streets or on Twitter… these probably sound familiar as most of us have gone through, or are currently going through such a phase in our lives.

Admiring and idolising people with talent and/or looks are part and parcel of human nature, and most of the regular things that fans do are good, clean fun. But as celebrities get more up-close and personal with their fans through social media, fan meets and more live performances, the divide between idols and their fans has narrowed, prompting some to put a toe out of line, or, make that an entire leg.

Installing CCTVs in the vicinity of their idols’ residence, hiring drivers to tailgate their idols’ cars to the extent of causing severe road accidents, selling their bodies to hire said drivers when it gets too expensive, sending menstruation blood to their idols (yuck!)… these are just some of the crazy antics a new breed of fans in Korea called Sasaeng do to get closer to their idols. Unfortunately, the fad has reached the shores of Singapore, where the K-wave is virtually irresistable. While not as extreme yet, a local accident involving a seven-car pile up near Changi Airport had been the result of ardent Singaporean fans stalking a Korean celebrity.

Before you laugh these off as cases of the cray cray, think again. These are real problems stemming from intense obsession, and could happen to the average person. Consider the stalking of an ex on social media platforms or following them around (which sometimes ends in a brutal murder), non-stop gaming, intensive clubbing and binge drinking all night long, catching every football match on TV at unearthly hours, compulsively collecting items…

Such acts of obsession towards something you enjoy, also known as Obsessive Hobby Disorder, are unhealthy in the following ways:

- Physically toiling, especially when you are missing proper meals and rest
-  Time consuming, disrupting normal life by preventing you from performing well at work and school or even missing them entirely
- Ruins your social life and relationships
- Frequent lack of money, which may prompt one to resort to crimes
- Long term negative impacts on your mental wellbeing – in event that you are forced to give up the hobby i.e. idol leaves the entertainment industry for good or gets married, a void will develop and if it is unable to be filled up, one may succumb to it through drastic acts, such as suicides. 

In serious cases, especially when one is in denial of their obsession, he/she will have to undergo treatment with a psychiatrist. But, in less severe cases when you are aware that you're perhaps investing too much time, effort and money on your interest, or someone tells you your obsession is scary for the umpteenth time, you can keep your interest in check before it gets overboard.

Ways to Overcome Obsession

1.  If you find yourself stalking someone on various social media platforms, remove those accounts to eliminate those constant updates and reminders of that person. Do something more productive like reading or learning a new skill. Being addicted to social media was never healthy to begin with.

2. Join a new community group and get to know new people and talk about new things. By trying out something new, you obtain a new focus, and your mind will be preoccupied with trying to retain those new skills.

3. Distract yourself with more interests. Love one K-pop band? Why not spread the love and check out a few others? As your interest is spread out across a few areas, your obsession in one particular area of interest will thin.

4. Hide pictures or anything you have that reminds you of the person. Without the physical object in front of you, you will be less inclined to keep your mind on said person.

5. List down the good points and bad points of the person. Don’t focus solely on the good points. Nobody is perfect. If you realize that person is not as godly as he or she seems, you will feel less inclined to worship him/her.

6. If the person you are obsessed about is a celebrity, forget about a happily-ever-after. Unless you’re like Katie Holmes who’s able to make a name for yourself in the entertainment industry (and by the way, that didn’t end well in marriage), it’s time to face up to reality before you get hurt.

These days, with more people succumbing to a lifestyle that results in loneliness and emptiness, such problems can become more common.  If you notice your friend, or yourself displaying signs of Obsessive Hobby Disorder, don’t hesitate to consult a psychiatrist.

Sources: 
http://sg.entertainment.yahoo.com/blogs/singapore-showbiz/sasaeng-groupies-gone-wild-part-1-k-fans-141105992.html 
http://sg.entertainment.yahoo.com/blogs/singapore-showbiz/sasaeng-stalkers-part-1-sasaeng-singapore-084138184.html http://sg.entertainment.yahoo.com/blogs/singapore-showbiz/sasaeng-stalkers-part-3-one-fan-korean-sasaeng-092622496.html